From my husband.
Does he KNOW me or what?
VivaciousTulips… And a Mountain Dew….
True Love. Right there.
True Love
February 16, 2010Hello world!
February 15, 2010Welcome to WordPress.com. This is your first post. Edit or delete it and start blogging!
It’s Time For a WordPress Change
February 15, 2010SHHHH….
WordPress is on the way.
I love blogger don’t get me wrong and I’ll still be thrilled to help anyone out with their blogspot issues.
But.
I’m dying to try out something new… see if I’m missing anything on the wordpress side of the fence. SEO plugins, A NORMAL comment section, A WHOLE new blog look….
Reminds me of my camera. I pushed my little point and shoot TO THE LIMIT. I was SO ready for a Digital SLR.
It’s time for a NIKON kind of blog I tell ya.
And since this month is my 2 year Bloggavurshury….. !
MY blogspot-switch-to-wordpress is brought to you with the help of some friends of mine..
@dotatdabbled
{All the artwork and the coding and adjustments of my free theme: Vigilance}
@telling_dad
{Helped me upload the database and the WordPress.org files}
@scrappinmichele
{Helped me upload the theme initially}
@theworkingmom
{Jen does amazing work, and has answered a lot of questions and says she will help me on my WordPress journey… I intend to keep picking the WordPress knowledge out of her brain in fact…}
It’s not impossible. But sheesh, it’s taken me a long time WITH all this help.
Really quick… What you are going to need to do get your own WordPress Switch.
- Step 1: Purchase your own URL. (I used GoDaddy.com about $10/year)
- Step 2: Find hosting. Cost is usually from $5-10/month (Note: make sure it comes with database support. You will need MYSQL to upload the WordPress files.)
- Step 3: Upload the WordPress Database to your server. (Here’s where I needed help… huh??) But when I asked around several ppl were willing to jump in on this process.
- Step 4: Find a Theme you like… Free or otherwise… What’s a WordPress Theme you ask? Just Google it and go find one you like. I wanted a really clean layout. And a lot of people go with Thesis, but you pay for it. I found Vigilance, and part of what I liked besides it was clean, was that it’s free initially and then when you need to you can upgrade for a whopping $40.(So Far Vigilance is working great, and the upgrade is more about getting support in the forums.)
- Step 5: Upload Your Theme into the WordPress files. (Again, I have no idea.. that part magically happened when Michele Stepped in…)
- Step 6: If you need new artwork now is the time to get it, please people DO NOT keep going to iStock and purchase the same dang cartoon mom face EVERY other mom blogger already has.
Here are 2 artists THRILLED to take your money and make a better (even semi-custom) header for you… @dotatdabbled @napwarden, or ask around, believe me there are graphic artists out there!!
- Step 7: Figure out how to FTP files. Filezilla.com for a free software program. (You could do this step at the beginning if you think you’ll be uploading any of the files initially.)
- Step 8: Here’s where I broke down and paid someone to tweak the theme I liked into the website I was going to LOVE. I found prices from $300 to $1200. So prepare yourself a budget. You can only ask your friends to do so much for you for free right?
- Step 9: DO a ton of research on wordpress plugins, once your wordpress site is up teach yourself how to use the backend: posts, categories, media content control etc. Get help again to migrate your old posts and content over to the new site, new server. If you have paid someone to help with the coding, they likely will help with the migration.
- Step 10: Attempt not to loose all of your feedreaders and followers. Ask them to please follow your current feed in case they were following your Blogger feed. Leave the old blog up with links where they can find your current schtuff. And redirect your feedburner account to your new URL.
I kept thinking all of this could be done for under $200. And no matter what I did or who I asked. It just wasn’t possible.
I’m dreaming that the handful of coders I know will get together with the fun graphic artists I know and make mommy blogger wordpress babies… ones that are birthed with-IN a mom blogger’s budget.
Either that or maybe we need bloggy insurance for upgrades?
Creamy Peppers And Onions With Kielbasa
February 12, 2010Serve over any pasta.
We most often use a whole grain penne.
And sometimes we serve it over rice.
And just because.
Asparagus was on sale today.
And that meant.. it was for DINNER!
RECIPE
- Meat Options: Turkey Kielbasa sliced in rounds, cooked chicken-bite sized, or ham chunks
{Or skip the meat and call this a vegetarian dish!} - 1 Green Pepper: sliced in thin strips
- 1 Red Pepper: sliced in thin strips
- 1 Red Onion: halved and sliced in thin strips
- 1-2 Garlic Cloves: crushed
- pinch of Red Pepper Flakes
- 1-2 Teaspoons Basil Leaves: crushed in your hand
- 1 Can Chicken Broth or Veggie Broth
- 1 Cup Cream or Half & Half
- Parmesan Cheese
YUMMY.
Ode To The Random
February 9, 2010I’m stinkin’ excited! I have begun a small project for MemoryMixer.com. You can now find me on Twitter as @MemoryMixer for a few weeks.. how fun is that!?
And what does she do? She gives away free Valentine Card Templates! If you have MemoryMixer.com software or Photoshop you can add your own photos to these cards and send some virtual love to loved ones… or maybe that should be Real love… virtually?? Or something. (Oh go tell her happy birthday already!)
Have a GoodNCrazy Valentine’s!
Black Diamond WOW Review
February 8, 2010“Black Diamond WOW”
Mop and Cleaners
My IRL friend agreed to test out the Black Diamond Wow products. She has the cutest house, with a ton of wood flooring and plenty of tile to clean… Alas… I only have linoleum in the house we are renting (sigh). A big thanks to Mama Appah (and her daughter).
In her words….
I like that it comes with a washable pad, (hence the reason I never got into the disposable type mops). I also really enjoy the ease and functionality of quick clean ups! When my kids came in from playing in the snow and left trails of snow/mud/water I grabbed the mop and the tracks throughout the whole main floor were gone in under 30 seconds.
Should I Be Concerned?
February 5, 20103 ENVELOPES
Well gee I thought I did, but when it’s in all caps like that; I feel like checking my scales just to be sure I REALLY understand.
Mini Mom Vacation
February 3, 2010I flew across the country to meet this little girl.
Why did they adopt? Besides obviously wanting a little girl? {My friend jokes her husband can’t make girl spermies}. She will tell you straight out: God told me we needed to adopt.
Well amen.
Entitlement VS Gratitude
February 2, 2010Weve been noticing a new vein of ‘tude in our Tween.
A whole lot of:
- Why are we doing that?
- My after school party starts in an hour, who’s taking me?
- I have 7 classes every day, my life is SO hard!
Note the lack of please/thank you and general aura of entitlement.
I’m reading a parenting book about the entitlement factor among children (and all Americans really). How they (we?) need a shot in the arm, a vaccination, of good old fashioned humility and appreciation. “I deserve this.” “I should get more.”
The antidote the book suggests?
Gratitude.
Last weekend SuperTween needed a few pairs of casual pants. She’s literally growing before our eyes, several pairs of her jeans are ready for the Ark.
We drove to Kohl’s and chose a pair of khaki pants, but couldn’t find jeans for tall-for-her-age super skinny 12yrold, Size: ZERO. And next…( apparently I failed at communication the next few minutes…) because everyone else understood that our next stop on the Tween shopping express was Target; to buy her one more pair.
I Kid You Not.
Out of her mouth:
What I heard:
I basically pulled out the wicked witch of the west mom mask, and well, LOST it. Are you serious? We drove over the mountain to shop specifically for you. And you’ve hit your Saturday patience level after one store?
Needless to say the rest of the day went to crap.
That weekend I talked with my husband about how to cure this entitlement virus and prevent it from infecting her any further. And just how contagious is it? Will it spread to the younger siblings?
I kept reading my parenting book, hoping for some insight. And I swear every talk and lesson in church that Sunday mentioned blessings and the benefits of expressing gratitude.
Monday night instead of Family Home Evening, I asked everyone to play a few rounds of a new game we just received called: Count Your Blessings. It’s a game created out of the inspired brainpower of the @Gratitweets women: Laura Robinson and Elizabeth Bryan along with the Chicken Soup for the Soul book of the same name.
Yes. SuperTween complained and slouch-pouted in the corner chair. However. After less than one round of:
Flick the spinner.
Read a situation card from one of the five decks (they present a dilemma, or predicament).
Problem solve as a family.
She couldn’t help herself. She was drawn in, participating and answering alongside the family immediately.
Examples and family responses:
Category: Look On The Bright Side
“Share something difficult that’s happened to you that relates to life. And then share how you looked on the bright side.”
Sassy 9yrold: I broke my leg when I was four… people felt bad so they gave me presents.
TK 5yrold: I broke my arm last summer… everyone thought I was so cool on the first day of Kindergarten!
Dad: When I was 15, I was diagnosed with Type I Diabetes… I eat better now, watch my sweets and value my life more.
SuperTween: In the spelling bee in 5th grade I won the whole grade, but later after a dad bullied the teacher the kid who got out just before me got a ‘second chance’… he ended up winning the next round and later they called it a ‘Tie’… I learned that sometimes it’s more important to know you worked hard and did well no matter what the public story is.
Category: Count Your Blessings
“Give the group 2 reasons you are grateful for the player with the largest feet.”
TK: I love his hugs and kisses (about Dad of course!)
Sassy: He’s cool. He takes care of me.
SuperTween: Sometimes he drives me to school. He works and pays the bills.
Mom: Because he loves me. And he makes me laugh when he teaches the children the Fishheads song!
Category: Soul Food
“You yelled at a friend or family member because you were frustrated about something else.”
Everyone: Oh my gosh we ALL do that!
And we laughed and talked about how hard it is when you are upset or frustrated at something, but then transfer that frustration to your family.
The conversation that followed after these handful of thought provoking- blessing remembering- questions and prompts was in a word: Priceless.
We talked for half an hour. The parents. The kids. (5yrold migrated off to the Lego pile nearby). We may not have solved world peace but we did manage to get a few antiviral injections aimed at the nasty entitlement virus.
And I’m grateful for that!